Teaching is loving. It is trust and respect. These are the emotional attitudes of the parent or teacher that are the vitamins of learning effort. Compare the attitudes of those who expressed doubt, indifference, or even hopelessness to those whose students know they are needed and respond in positive ways to instruction and direction.
The attitudes of the parent who communicates love and trust to the son or daughter is bound to get a different result than the parent who is consumed by fear that the juvenile is going to get involved with drugs, or other delinquent behavior.