- Think of what you want out of life….not how much you can get done. Assess all your activities. If they add to your life, keep them. If not, eliminate them whenever possible.
- Understand your body clock. It’s irregular and not as uniform as time from a clock. Identify its peak times. That is when to schedule especially difficult work.
- Don’t crowd every minute with some task. If you do, tension rises and effectiveness declines.
- Slow down. Don’t be addicted to rushing. Ask, “Why am I rushing? What will hap-en if I don’t?” Know the difference between necessary haste and impatience.
- Subtract an old activity when you add a new one.
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- Have you read and followed directions carefully?
- Are you taking short cuts that are confusing you?
- Are you using your book properly?
- Read the directions aloud….now do they make sense?
- Have you tried making a picture, table, graph, or diagram to represent the known facts and relationships?
- Have you tried to sold a similar, but less difficult problem?
- Have you checked the glossaries, the table of contents or the indexes for help?
- Did you copy the words or numbers correctly?
- Are you trying to do too much of the work in your head?
- Have you checked for careless mistakes?
School is on the mind of everyone this month as the children start school for another year of learning. Backpacks bulge with new books and supplies, girls wear the latest fashions and boys find the baggiest levis. Happy faces and anticipation as the little ones trooped off walking or to catch a bus.
A neighbor stopped over and asked about her child who is three. With a birthday in September, she has been told that it might be better if she holds him back from attending school a year. Her concern is that he will be the youngest child in the class and may be immature and not do well in the school. This is a difficult question for me…..my own children have October birthdays and I did not hold either back. I know they struggled not only through elementary and high school, but college as well. Nevertheless, they both were bright enough and I didn’t see the problem as theirs, but that of the schools. In hindsight would I have done things differently….probably not. It is painful, though, as a parent, to see your child struggle.
So, my response to my neighbor was “wait and see, he is still young.” My children are adults now and there weren’t as many options then. However, it saddens me to think that a parent has to even consider this question today. Many parents choose to keep their children home for schooling, but others are unable to do this. So, do they have to worry that their child may not be ready? “Who is not ready, the child or the school?”
- Positive social interaction with adults and peers
- Creative expression
- Structure and clear limits to physical activity
- Meaningful participation in families and learning programs
- Opportunities for self definition
- Competence and achievement
We don’t know where we got this wonderful reminder….but it is something we wish we could remember when pressures get too great.
Relieve stress by understanding which brain hemisphere is stressed. If you feel depressed or emotionally overwrought, your stress is in the right hemisphere….the creative, emotional, holistic side.
What to do: Switch to your matter-of-fact left hemisphere by doing math, writing factual prose or organizing. The emotional right brain will calm down.
If you feel time-stressed and overburdened, the left hemisphere is involved. Switch to your right brain by singing or playing a sport.
Any teacher can take a child to the classroom, but not every teacher can make him learn. He will not work joyously unless he feels that liberty is his, whether he is busy or at rest; he must feel the flush of victory and the heart-sinking of disappointment before he takes, with a will, the tasks distasteful to him and resolves to dance his way bravely through a dull routine of textbooks.
In the fast-paced world in which we live, adults often are hard pressed to find the time to work, manage a household, raise a family and pursue leisure activities….all within the confines of a 24 – hour day. Children are no different. Between going to school, doing homework, working part time, visiting with friends, attending athletic practice, participating in school clubs, taking music or dance lessons, doing household chores and watching a favorite television……a child can find himself without a minute to spare during a typical day.
Children need their parents’ help in learning how to organize their time. By equipping them with some vital time management skills now, they will be better prepared to meet the increasing demands placed on their lives as they grow older.
- Weekly chart. Map out a schedule each week, with specific times allotted for school, homework, work, chores, extracurricular activities, television, dating and going out with friends.
- Permanent work space. By mid-elementary age, your child should have his own palace for studying.
- Organized notebooks.
- Regular homework time
- Learning comes first. If your child starts producing incomplete assignments, neglecting his homework or slacking off in his grades, it is time to make hip drop some activities. If schoolwork improves, he can resume the disrupted activity.
Do not let your child over structure her time after school and on weekends. Children need a few moments to wind down between activities. Encourage them to have a healthy snack, listen to music or read a magazine before rushing off to soccer practice or a music lesson. Remember that part of the joy in being young is the freedom to do nothing at all.
With the beginning of school, comes another season of sports of all kinds for our youngsters. We have come to believe that competition is good for us. But research show that “offensive competition.” which involves aggressive gamesmanship, can be counterproductive. A study conducted at the University of Texas disclosed that people who were more concerned with winning than with performing well had lower levels of achievement. If you are competitive or your child is competitive, consider the following:
Keep in mind that competition is not the opposite of cooperation. Using cooperative strategies will often help one be more “competitive.”
Learn to believe in yourself. Do not strive to prove yourself in others’ eyes.
Accept that other people are needed to get ahead. A combination of healthy competition and cooperation can go a long way.
Keep an open mind to new ideas, information and feedback. Offensively competitive people often resist others’ suggestions.
Help others to achieve their goals.
- Challenge the process. Leaders search for opportunities, experiment and take risks.
- Inspire a shared vision. Leaders envision the future and enlist the support of others to share and achieve that vision.
- Enable others to act. Leaders foster collaboration and draw the best from their people.
- Model the way. Leaders set a good example and plan opportunities for their people to experience many “wins” along the way.
- Encourage their people. Contributions are recognized. Accomplishments are celebrated.
The Leadership Practices Inventory, called LPI, was compiled from interviews and surveys with managers who attended management development seminars.
Courtesy of Measures of Leadership
Why is writing important? It is functional. It helps us get practical things done. It is stimulating. Writing not only helps provoke thoughts, but helps us organize those thoughts in a logical, concise manner. It is therapeutic. It allows us to express feelings that may not be easily expressed in face-to-face communication.
- Spend time on activities that require real writing rather than on short answers and fill-in-the blank exercises.
- Spend time putting thoughts on paper in a logical, well-organized way.
- Include research and brainstorming as part of writing.
- Make writing useful.
- Use drafts. Revising and editing are done by all good writers.
- Respond to the ideas expressed in writing. The true
- function of writing is to convey ideas.
- Write about something that is of interest.
- Take advantage of skills that lead to writing, such as, rhythms, reading, music, listening.
- Reward writing that is clear and concise.
- Write for real world applications, such as a letter to the editor, writing a resume or a job application.